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Being parents is a way of life that requires sacrifice, commitment and determination. But everyone knows you can never achieve perfection in this area – there are too many variables to ensure that happens! On a serious note as the mother of two, aunt of more than a dozen nieces nephews, former director of Montessori, and later for children, which have seen hundreds of parents in recent years I realized one of the major advantages that a mother or a father can be relaxed mind.When can put aside the stress of everyday life – we are more focused on the needs of our children, wiser and able to react in a So it is more logical and benefit of our children. Here's my two cents now to find out what the experts have to say about the authoritarian parenting style is styles.AuthoritarianAn "take over" style. A motto for this style can be "The rules are designed to comply – otherwise face the consequences. This style works with the mother or father (or both) have full control of the strict standards to maintain order and maintain discipline. strict rules of conduct have been established, which often require hard work as mother and child achieve.It easy for users of this style to become critical of his son when they break the rules , so I encourage mothers and fathers to turn the focus to reward good behavior. After this treatment, showing that this child is healthy, that years later relationship.The breed better advantage of this style is that parents can play "good cop, bad policing and bad policeman" can be authoritarian. As surprising is that my daughters but declare eternal love to his father – though it makes use of this style in a situation disadvantage of a regular basis.The authoritarian style is that the child may become so accustomed to the rules for making a decision without the guidance of the rules can become a challenge as they grow. In other words, to think itself can become difficult.PermissiveThis is the opposite of authoritarian style. An appropriate motto for this style can be "rule of children." The child is under control and there are very few (if any rules). These standards that exist are not consistent in effect creating a "free for all environment" that has little or no guidance. This leads to very low levels, they have clear expectations of the child and how Consequently, mothers and fathers on the feeling powerless and unable to change the child's behavior at the time when they have. A very scary if this is widespread in our society! This style is said to be seriously considered good, the bad and the ugly behavior of the child that little or no comment on that. Or if you make comments that are online "This is life" or "do it your way." Unfortunately, this does nothing to shape child.The the world of these terms is that parents want to create as many options for the child. The only problem is that the child may not be able to make better decisions. On the other hand, if child is not emotionally mature enough to even be unfair for parents to abandon their responsibilities of making decisions child.Democratic AuthoritativeIf Or there was a slogan for this style would be "balance is the key life. "Democratic or authoritarian kind mother, who define and maintain boundaries. provide realistic expectations with decent explanations that children can understand – and provide continuity for all children as part of their world for them. The beauty of this approach is that many focus on positive reinforcement with much of the conduct. The election will be the child that are age and education have now taken advantage of as often as possible. Much effort was a mother or a father balanced and many people who have children outside the norm, this approach can not take option.My parents StylesWhile U.S. Department of Education seems to be in favor of democratic societies and with authority "approach to professional and father I think the teacher should be an effective father a bit of all these things. If the mother and father are still together, playing good cop, bad policeman "tends to work very well. In other words, there is a time and season for everything in life, and another to be a good mother or father (in a mature and adult stage) is able to read the stage of life your child goes through and evaluate the method or style works best at this time. For example, a teenager simply a rebellion against always authoritarian father and definitely run rings around a permanent permit mom.On On the other hand,